We think anything from, “Oh, why am I at work on such a beautiful day?” to “My sister hasn’t called me yet… I hope she’s ok”. Basically, we’re habitually negative without even realizing it. The power of positive thinking has been studied, talked about and documented time and again. But how do we stop ourselves from thinking negative thoughts if we don’t even realize it’s happening? Nicole Graham is a Tampa Bay based freelance writer. She covers topics regarding Higher Education, Health and Wellness, and Parenting.