“Think about the amazing food!!” he said. Since my only experience with Thai food was way-too-oily sauces with a few unrecognizable vegetables all dumped on white rice, the food wasn’t exactly a selling point for me. So off to Thailand we went, him: excited about the food, culture, monkeys, and elephants, me: excited about the massages. And now back from Thailand, I’m missing, craving, yearning, cooking the food, reading books on Buddhism, practicing more yoga, diffusing lemongrass essential oils, displaying elephant figurines around the house, and he’s saying, “I big fat told you so!” The truth is that Thailand is much, much more than a beach vacation destination. Unless you live nearby, it’s not really the place to fly 20 hours to simply work on your tan. In fact, the perfectly Instagrammable beaches were last on the list of reasons I cried leaving Thailand. The magic found in Thailand, as my boyfriend predicted (but shh, don’t tell him he was right!) was in the healthy food and culture. Thailand proved to me that you can eat the yummiest food on the planet and still look young, be trim, and feel fabulous. Here are 11 healthy habits I observed and stuffed into my carry-on to implement back at home: And I don’t mean they’re hitting up their refrigerator every few minutes, or they’re addicted to Seamless deliveries; it’s that you can’t walk more than a minute in Bangkok without encountering some amazing street food to nosh on. So since they’re always munching on something, Thai people never really feel restricted or hungry enough to binge! Plus, they’re keeping their metabolisms revved up all day long so their bodies aren’t panicking about when their next delicious Thai snack’s gonna come. Even their desserts are made from rice! Like mango with sticky rice and a sweetened coconut milk rice pudding. Eating gluten when your body can’t really break it down can really screw with your digestion, skin, weight, and immunity. For Thai people, gluten just isn’t really a part of their regular diet. If anything’s a thief of health, it’s the super-processed dairy that we Westerners are addicted to. And the fact that they choose coconut milk over cow milk 100 percent couldn’t be a healthier life choice. I guess that’s because coconut milk is rich in stuff called MCTs, which is the rapper nickname for medium-chain triglycerides, fatty acids that actually help us burn fat. Coconut milk is also hydrating. Not as hydrating as just plain coconut water (which they drink right out of the coconut with a straw), but it’s got a lot of electrolytes nonetheless, which can soothe our gut health and prevent constipation, both of which I can vouch for. Actually, when I did some research, I found some studies that said eating spicy foods DOES increase your body heat, which actually can speed up your metabolism. I also noticed that the spicy thing made me slow way down when eating, which is absolutely a healthier way to be eating! Eating slowly allows your body to actually digest the food as you eat, which can lead to less gas, bloating, and bellyaches later, and it helps you pace yourself so you get fuller AS you’re eating and then probably end up eating less. What do I mean not for the right reasons? This isn’t a Bachelor reference; I’m saying that Thai people cover themselves head to toe not to avoid skin cancer and early wrinkles but because it’s pushed upon them via billboards and ads that the whiter you are, the more beautiful you are. Seriously. It was so sad to witness that all the way in Thailand the beauty industry is screwing with people’s heads and self-confidence, but way to go Thai people for protecting themselves from the sun. In general, I always travel with of packets of ginger tea, plus a box of crystallized ginger to heal digestive woes, but none of this was at all necessary for me to bring to Thailand since they served stomach-soothing ginger tea everywhere I went (without me even asking for it!), they cook so many dishes with illness-zapping ginger, and they sold crystallized ginger everywhere. And for us, their fast food like fresh mango cut on the side of the road, sticky rice lightly sweetened and stuffed into a bamboo shoot to peel and eat like a banana, a mushy steamed cookie cup made from just banana and coconut meat is fancy plant-based stuff we’d buy at Whole Foods for $24.99, but this stuff was the cheapest food available in Thailand. You know that stress is terrible for you, right? In every way possible? Blood pressure-wise, fat-wise, skin-wise, digestion-wise, years of your life-wise, happiness-wise. They don’t really stress like we stress, so if you do the math: less stress = fewer health problems = more beautiful, serene, happy, long-living people. I’d see shop owners at a market being massaged by their friends when nobody was buying their flowers. Or when nobody was around to give them a massage, they’d do yoga, since they consider yoga a self-massage. Which is such a cool way of looking at it! Which will absolutely inspire me to do more yoga back home. One of the most eye-opening moments of why Thai people are so much healthier than us came from the homestay we did. During our last stop in Chiang Mai, we opted to stay in an American guy’s guesthouse rather than a hotel. His wife is Thai and happened to make us the best homemade Thai food in all of Thailand, catered to my exact eating preferences! After three nights of mind-blowing seven-plus-course meals, I decided to sneak a peek in her kitchen. There was no pantry. I swear, I even asked, just to be sure! Where did they keep their boxes of stuff? Their bars? Crackers? Chocolate? Secret stash of emergency cookies? Their ingredients?! Umm, in the fridge. Because unlike us, they actually cook all fresh food. ALL OF IT. They eat fresh plants (and some meat, yes) but no CRAP (crap = chemical, refined, artificial, and processed foods). With real Thai food, forget preservatives that you can’t even pronounce. And with real Thai food, prepare for plants galore. The best Thai snacks and desserts are made from plants, and veggies play a much bigger role than meat. Sure they eat some meat curries, but the meat-to-plant ratio is definitely in the plant favor! Also, tofu was available everywhere—even places that didn’t have tofu on the menu were able to make any curry or pad thai vegan with tofu without blinking an eye. It’s absolutely true that eating and living more like a Thai person is a smart idea for your health and happiness. Cutting back on dairy and gluten, being a nicer, calmer person, doing yoga (and getting massages when possible), eating a lot of ginger, pacing yourself while eating, eating spicy foods, eliminating processed foods, and protecting yourself from the sun for the right reasons are all great ideas to improve your health. Another great idea? Visiting Thailand. Through her popular Party in My Plants Podcast, humorous videos, and newsletter, Talia helps real, busy, everyday people skyrocket their energy so they can boldly show up in their world as their best. Her uniquely spunky lifestyle advice has been celebrated regularly on the Dr. Oz Show, Good Morning America, The Doctors, Forbes, Buzzfeed, Bustle, Success Magazine and in a 4-page spread in her small childhood town’s newspaper. 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